He did! The answer came 2 months ago... happened to read few articles online that I can pick up some point to adjust myself. Here are my notes to share:
- List out the work and housework that I need to do 1 day in advance. So that I won't spend too much time on certain things.
- End work at least 30 minutes before hubby arrives home. This also gives me a few moments to reflect my day, distress, and gradually ease out of work mode.
- Make sure that by the time hubby arrives home, I am not dressed in my pajamas.
- When work day is done, do not give in to the temptations of checking emails, etc.
- Spend some time alone with hubby every single day, even if it's just a few
minutes after the kids are in bed. Spend some time talking, snuggling on
the couch, or even eating a late-night snack together. - Try to get out of the house when there is opportunity. Go for a drive, walk around the neighborhood, or just sit outside of the house.
- Do something special for your the kids or hubby everyday. This can be as
elaborate as planning a fancy candlelight dinner, or as simple as replacing
all of the pencils with freshly sharpened ones. - Use physical gestures regularly, like hugs, kisses, back rubs.
Hope you find it useful as well :D
'Finish your outdoor work and get your fields ready; after that, build your house.' ~ Proverbs 24:27
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